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Sally’s Boutique

A long, long, long time ago when I first started working in the floral business, I was still in highschool and the job I snagged was the go to girl at Sun City Florist in Sun City, Arizona. For those who are unfamiliar, Sun City is a restricted retirement community so no one under senior age may own or rent there. Young people come in to work the shops but for the most part its just seniors. Its legal to drive a golf cart on the road as well as a 3 wheel bike. The speed limit was never over 30 mph.

I met a delightful woman there, by the name of Jeanie. Jeanie was always dressed to the nines. The jewelry, the hair, the shoes, she rocked the place and she looked like a million bucks. I showed up in jeans, tee, shirt and rubber boots with a flannel shirt over my arm because go to girls didn’t wait on customers, like Jeanie got to, they unpacked the flowers from wholesalers, re-cut the stems, packed the flower coolers, changed the water in the flowers, watered the plants, washed the windows, and swept away the stems from around the designers feet and fetched whatever the designers needed. If they weren’t soaking, cutting floral foam and packing arrangement containers with it for designers to use, they were making bows, tons and tons of bows.

So there was Jeanie looking like she just came from church and I looked like I just fell of a farm truck and rolled in the back door.  When Jeanie was busy with customers out front and the order phone would ring my chapped hands bled all over the telephone so Jeanie would dial out later with a tissue over her finger. But she always smiled and laugh with me. She threw me hugs and kisses because I was too dirty to touch so I never went without her love.

For her I would save an Orchid in the cooler on her very special shelf next to her sack lunch and I kept it alive for months while she nipped into the cooler each Saturday night to take it home to wear on Sunday and bring it back Monday morning for me to mist and soak its stem and tuck away for next week.

I made my first corsage for Jeanie, it was green rose buds and pink fuchsias with a white organza bow. I tucked tiny glass water vials onto the rose stems so she could wear it an entire weekend. She was having a reunion of all her children and grandchildren and she was going to stand in the sun for hours.  She wore it a week until the petals fell off and I was so proud my hard teenage  nearly heart burst.

Yet Jeanie had a secret, it took her years to tell me. By then I was a design assistant which meant I did all the go to girl stuff, ordered the flowers, took orders out front dressed like an urchin ( by then everyone knew me so being a mess didn’t matter) and designed in a pinch.  For years when Jeanie bounced into work, she never walked, it was sash-shay or bounce. I would always tell her how beautiful she looked.

“ Where’d you get that dress, Jeanie, you look like an angel?” 

“Oh, Sally’s Boutique.”

“Jeanie I love you in purple, that dress makes you look like you own the place!” 

“ Sally’s always make me proud”

And so it went on, throughout our work days together every dress, every pair of shoes, even the jewelry …all from Sally’s.

Finally I needed a dress for something special I forget now what, so I asked Jeanie, “Where IS this Sally’s Boutique?”

She pulled me aside and whispered, “Sally’s is the Salvation Army.”

Turns out my impeccable Jeanie raised more than a handful of kids in a tiny over the road trailer behind a feed store with only a cottonwood tree as air conditioning for many years. She did construction, handled asbestos, took in washing and often starved so her kids would have enough. She once served them rice with weevils, gently reminding them that was not weevils it was protein.  By the time she whispered in my ear she was 69 years old, buried 4 lousy husbands and 1 amazing one she loved to the day she died and dating a man 13 years her junior. Her grandchildren were in the double digits and she was living it up on $6 an hour in the high desert hideaway, she called “the ranch”  feeding wild birds and the occasional javalina family on her days off.  When I move to Tempe to go to college she was still shopping at Sally’s.

It just goes to show we can’t always trust our first impressions. Jeanie was much much more than a bouncy, well dressed beauty  — She was hard won victory in high heels and matching bag.

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Edited: January 29th, 2010

Don’t You Love What You Do?

 

I got an email from Sarah H. of Bonneville, Texas. “ You don’t talk about Homeschool, don’t you love what you do?

Sarah you are correct in the first part, I don’t talk a lot about  homeschool here.  The last part, where you assume why I don’t is way off base. Its cool, I forgive you — we humans jump to conclusions. 

Here are my reason for not sharing so much about homeshool…

  • Homeschool is just a part of who I am, and that part belongs to my entire family. I don’t own our homeschool journey so completely that I have become its soul voice. That would be a blog for the whole family to write. 
  • The tail shouldn’t wag the dog. There is a natural creative process to how we do homeschool that examining it enough to blog it would be like training it into a Bonsai, the end results might be stunningly beautiful and show years of labor, but ultimately unnatural.  In short, the blog would shape the homeschool.
  • In my mind the art of homeschool is like blowing soap bubbles. One must be there to experience their making, watch them dance on air and burst as expected by yet, unexpectedly. Explaining what each bubble does to those not present is a poor substitute for being there.
  • Homeschool can be ALL consuming. If not careful to refill my creative cup I could become a robot going through the motions of my day. My blog and my design work refill my cup. I take that joy back to my homeschool day and spend it there like ready cash.

Here is why I love what I do…

  • Jack
  • Dillon
  • Nathan
  • The moments Homeschool has given us together, by not sending us 4 separate directions every morning.

I thank you Sarah, because without your question I might never have considered my motivations. That is a gift. I hope you find one for yourself in what I have written on this page, but maybe its hiding somewhere on my blog for you?

To all my readers, commentors, and emailers… thanks for the refill!

Your joy is happily received and well used and I will be back for more!!

Happy Thursday!

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Edited: January 28th, 2010

Word Bard

 

Every three months or so, the boys and I remember with fondness the day I found the best novel we have ever read or the day we started reading it aloud. Or the day it dawned on us that it was THE best novel we have ever read.  I think much of this happened on the same day, but yet we remember it as if it was a long exhalation of days. We re-chew the juicy bits a long while, then one of us finally asks, “ I wonder when the next one is coming out?” 

The book is The Name of the Wind and the author is P. Rothfuss.

Read it aloud. Its lyrical.

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two cover printings, same book

Well this time around we actually did some checking on the next book and found this blog post by Pat Rothfuss, writer and word bard.  This seems a fair place to let you know that Mr. Rothfuss is an imaginative curser while blogging. If you do not appreciate cursing, even the imaginative kind you will have to skip his post. That’s too bad. His fertile curse-smithing is a giggle and a slap. If you read his post you will gain, not only insight into how a writer works but also into the creative process itself. Not just writing, but anything creative. Someday I am going to get the type of emails this guy gets — The disgruntled fan kind — and when I do I am going to defer to this post because even though he writes and I make digital art the proper frame of mind to produce creatively is the same. The distractions are many and expectations are high.

Whoever said you can’t rush genius, was a genius!

Oh, one of my favorite blogs did a snippet review of The Name of the Wind a while back. If you are reader you will enjoy the 10Thirty Blog for more than just a short visit.

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Reminder: Read Here about DSO and backing up your Gallery Snaps. Remember Gallery goes down with the rest of the forum February 1.

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What a great quote! I got this from an email yesterday and we have all heard variations of this but this one hits it on the head for me…

When God closes one door he ALWAYS opens another, but sometimes its Hell in the hallway.”

I am especially thinking of our beloved Kim B  today with her teasing exploding computer giving her fits and Miss Bunny ( aka the little engine that could!) who is waiting for some big scary storms to blow ice her way and must brave the weather for supplies with a bad back.

Take care in the hallways girls!! 

Sending Coffee

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Last but not least, If you have not visited the DSO Challenge Blog this month, you have the short side of a week to dash to it. Tons of delish posting bonuses to be had so don’t be left out!   Here is mine…

January Posting Bonus

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http://www.digital-scrapbooking.org/challenges/

Full instructions with every challenge!

Okay I am going to go teach my kids now. I’m a tad late but they are forgiving!

Hugs Scrap Sistahs!

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Edited: January 27th, 2010

Thrift Store Finds

 

I was looking back on some old freebies and found this…

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… since I am taking a load of stuff to the Goodwill (thrift store) this week can’t help but think if any of it will be useful to anyone. I know there are tons of moms out there who will snap up all the levis jeans my boys have outgrown, but the other stuff…meh, not sure. I am just glad to be free of it if that is all that happens, good enough! WEeeeee!!

I also wondered if there might be a person or two who has never known the joy of sifting through other people’s used stuff to find new stuff of their own. ie: Thrift Store Shopping. My Parents are the Royal Couple of Thrifting. When they are not traveling here and there like carefree nomads they volunteer at a Charity Thrift Store in Phoenix, Society of  St. Vincent De Paul Thrift Stores. Now they get to see it from the other side and boy do they have stories to tell!

I grew up surrounded by their shopping skills and how great it was to see how little one could spend instead of how much. We would walk out of a store with name brand clothes for only the change in my mother’s purse. Nowadays, its not that cheap, but its still a great way to find stuff for less.

So I have some tips I picked up over the years.

~Be prepared. Tape Measure, slip off shoes, and wear a leotard or one piece under your clothes if you plan on trying anything on. Its quick for on and offs in the dressing room or anywhere you are. LOL!

~ Know your china pattern, silver pattern, maker of your sofa. The size shoes your neighbor’s kids are in…etc.  I wrote, my kids shirt, pant and shoe sizes on a index card and kept it in my purse when the kids were growing up, but now they stay in a size a lot longer so I can remember them without the cheat sheet. I think I get more sleep now too!

~Shop on Tuesday’s after 12 noon. This is usually the day the new goods arrive.

~Remember. Dry Cleaners use thrift stores to drop off unclaimed clothes. More men forget their clothes than women. So if you want to pick up some big name hand-me downs for the man in your life. Know his waist and inseam size.

~Not everything will be where its suppose to be so if you are looking for a nice men’s pant, don’t forget it might be in women’s pants by mistake. I often find my son’s “cool” jeans in the girls section because any jeans with special details might end up there.

~ The best brands to look for?  In addition to your favorite brands, Target had a store brand “On Trend” if I remember the name correctly, they wore like iron. I bought those anytime I found them when my kids were little ones, even if it wasn’t their size yet. Tough, basic clothes that my boys outgrew but never wore out. Lands End clothes never disappoint. You can also return them to Land’s End for a replacement if they fall apart even if you bought them used. They won’t fall apart, but its good to know. 

~ A good rule to follow is if it looks wrinkled, stretched out, or the faded on the hanger its going to look that way on you. Unless you have a steady relationship with your ironing board skip stuff that is wrinkled on the hangar.

~ The old sewing trick my mother taught me is if you want to know if a mystery fabric has any cotton in it, grab a handful, ball it up in your fist and hold it tight for about 10 seconds. Release.

  • Stiff wrinkles – mostly or all natural fibers.
  • Falls but stays wrinkled – more than 50% natural fibers.
  • Falls quickly with slight creases – 50% natural/50% man-made fibers.
  • No wrinkles-  ALL man-made fibers. 

This trick works best if your not a iron lover and you want to know if you can keep being one and not look like you slept in your clothes. Great for just about any natural fabric cotton, silk etc. The more natural it is the more it will wrinkle.

~ Don’t forget to zip the zippers, button the buttons so you know they work  and check the crotch and shoulder seams where there might be blow outs and the seat, knees and elbows if they are threadbare. Sometimes we try on a coat and don’t do it up only to get it home and find you can’t! Bummer.

You might still buy it if you know about the problems if the price is low enough.

Even if you sew, you might not want to replace a zipper, a dry cleaner will charge about 10 dollars to do it, or hem your pants for about the same price. Sometimes its worth paying for. I bought 2 pair of lined suede pants years ago with blown zippers, they were easily worth $200 each. I paid $10 for both and spent $20 for someone else to put in the zippers. I love to sew, but replace a zipper in lined pants of suede, no thank you!

Scrappers have a special love affair with Thrift Stores, its where you can buy an old prom dress or wedding dress for $5 bucks and rip it up. Using the beads, lace, ribbons, bows, covered buttons etc. in a ton of projects and that is before you get at the fabric with all its many uses.  then there is the costume jewelry, and the old books to inspire us.

I enjoy silk ribbon embroidery its really lovely on black velvet or moiré satin, but its pricey to buy those fabrics new and its not the heavy weight I like.  I bought a child’s winter dress with a long skirt of deep green moiré and a bodice of black velvet, had it dry cleaned, cut down all the seams lining and all with the piece all flattened out I could lay tissues between the layers, roll the bundle up and store in a pillow case ( cat hair avoider) and I was ready to go for about $7 dollars total. I think I still have bits of that I haven’t used yet.  

Anyway, anyone got some great thrift stories to tell? 

Happy Monday! 

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Edited: January 25th, 2010

Can’t Stop Messin’

 

I know I have a problem. I know I should move on, but this Passions Blush kit from Kim B Designs is really addictive! Its on sale for a few more days, but then your going to have to pay full price and you will gladly pay full price and be glad you did, but why?

Why wait? Its 3.90 that’s half a pricey coffee, 3 Sunday papers that are only going to clutter up your life, or a box of Twinkies! Goodness! I just said it was better than a box of Twinkies!! You know I would never disparage the righteous Twinkie!

 

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Don’t forget about Valentine’s Day because it hasn’t forgot about you!

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http://digital-scrapbooking.org/shop/jodiann-cates-m-79.html

 

Here is the freebie!

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Happy Thursday Buckaroos!!

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Edited: January 20th, 2010

Coffee Science!!

 

 

A note to myself reads, “ Jodiann, Blog about your caffeine addiction and take this test 30 minutes after you partake in the heavenly bean!”

I always do what I am told. ( Ignore the  primal screams. That’s just Jack, he stops eventually)

Trust me, I always do what I am told.

So here goes.

I used to be a tea girl, Chamomile, Earl Grey, Raspberry in a wild moment. I once had a cup of Jasmine Tea  from the San Francisco Herb Company ( first mail order experience) that made my eyes rapidly switch side to side for about 4 hours and couldn’t wait to try it again! * hoot* Tea was my drink, Red Clover Tea when I was sick with a few goldenseal capsules and I wasn’t sick for long.

Then I met Jack and with him came the Heathen Bean! I resisted for a good 2 years. Coffee Bad. Coffee Kills.  I stayed with my hippie teas and waggled my finger at him while he shrugged his shoulders defiantly.

Eventually if you put enough cream and sugar in it …Coffee Rocks! 

Now nearly 2 decades later I am a itchy jones-er for the Co-Fay! I still act like its all Jack’s idea and only make it when he is going to drink it, today he came home to half a pot of coffee and started in with the, “I don’t want to drink old coffee” Speech.

It was fresh.  Shocker!

The first time I had actually made coffee when he wasn’t around. He was floored. I must now admit I have a problem. Coffee is the gateway, man. Soon I will be doing powdered donuts, road raging, and * gasp * drinking Red Bull.

Heaven help me!

So I took this “scientific” test…

http://www.oneplusyou.com/q/v/caffeine 

After a few tries I was able to make a slight buzz score. Its a slippery slope though, I will be right up there with “ Delusions of Godhood “ in no time at all. Feel free to drop your score into the comments section,if you don’t mind sharing. Maybe we can start a 12 steps group? The first one if its kind that doesn’t serve coffee and doesn’t have ashtrays!

Nah! How can anyone fix themselves with no coffee or cigarettes? …pfft!

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Edited: January 20th, 2010

Passions Blush

 

Jumping on here again! LOL!

Dillon reminded me of a wonderful story last week, of when the boys were so small they were not allowed to let the dogs outside or in because it never occurred to us to train our dogs, they were rowdy and we just kept the children getting banked by the door when they burst into the house and told them never never, never, never, NEVER to give them treats or they would get knocked down and hurt…we  thought we had it all figured out! ( eyeroll)

The boys has disappeared. I went into the bathroom and left my 6 and 3 year old sons playing “playdoh” at the table and then they were gone. POOF!! We had recently moved to this outpost we now call home and there was nothing except 5 foot grass and trees for about a mile all around. So I was sure they were somewhere in that mess. I called, and called, but they didn’t answer. I saw a truck leaving the area and jumped in my old ‘72 red over white El Camino and ran them down. Pulled them over with hair flying and accosted them for stealing my kids! The good old boy behind the wheel just stood there with his hands raised like in an old time western while I climbed into the back of his truck and kicked around looking under and old tarp and finding a dead deer. ( out of season, of course)

I don’t remember saying “ Sorry” or even explaining. Just acted crazy and left. I feel bad about that now and wish I had at least said something. When I got home our biggest dog, BJ was waiting at the gate and upon seeing me promptly threw up pink and orange playdoh.

Ah! HA!

I followed him behind the shed out back to see a bunch of dogs lined up and my boys standing barefoot  on turned over buckets in the tall grass breaking off pieces of playdoh and “treating” them with it. The explanation from my 6 year old know everything child was that I pushed them to this by refusing to let them give treats.

That is the day I knew I was capable of unprovoked crazy where my kids were concerned.

I’ll just blame the playdoh!

Today I have no such excuse. I was happily tootling along with my life and forgot to tell you all about this really cool kit Kim B Designs has in the DSO store now at a phenomenal price! I know I always say this but the is the most beautiful thing EVER! The details in this kit are really special. So many little touches! Kim makes us look good! Its like a treasure hunt!!

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http://digital-scrapbooking.org/shop/passions-blush-p-2913.html

$3.90

Here is the layout I made with it…

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Here are more layouts…

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I got this LO pic from Kim’s Newsletter. Handy and Wonderful! Go to Kim’s Blog and sign up.  Psst: Has exclusive freebies you can’t get anywhere else!  WHOO HOO!

What are you waiting for??

Happy Tuesday again, now SCOOT off the Kim’s!!

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Edited: January 19th, 2010

New Video: Unpacking Styles in Photoshop

 

Listen Up Photoshop-ers! Jodiann is tripping and twanging through another video just for you!

If you ever seen a Photoshop Layer Style and wondered how on earth do I get that into my Photoshop so I can play with it, well here is the poop! Its easier than you would ever think!

This is also proof that certain people, mainly me, struggle to talk, move mouse, and think at the same time. Plenty of um, ahs, and dead space to remind you!

Helpful Links from Video

Mini-Stripe Lites Style Set

The Bun One

The Digi Scrap Obsession Store 

Happy Tuesday!

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 DSO Reminder…


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Edited: January 19th, 2010

Attention: The End Is Near!

Whoot!

DSO is getting ready to get an online make-over. New this and new that. But to do all this wonderful goodness, our chief techie, Bunny is going to have to tear into a few things. Over the weekend the Private Messaging area got spammed pretty heavy, so Bunny is deciding to start tearing into the Forum area earlier than she planned.  So take note: Forums. Private Messages and The Gallery at DSO will be going down for a re-fit on February 1 st.

There is no guarantee that all the Gallery will be able to be saved and upload again successfully. It must be de-tangled from the forum bits that will not be saved, but the goal is for the entire Gallery to be re-loaded after re-fit. Just in case, not all makes it back to its place, it is recommended that if do not have your Layouts saved on your computer that you back them up before February 1.

Now, get a hold of yourself! We wouldn’t leave you hangin’, would we? Who do you take us for? That would just be mean!

How to back up Gallery Pictures

Navigate to your Gallery at DSO, Right Click> Save As on each LO one at a time. If you want to re-up your Gallery photos  easily  make a file on your harddrive and save each one there. I dropped a number 01, 02, 03 in front of each file name so I could keep the order straight. I do enjoy going through my gallery chronologically to see how I progress so the order matters to me. If you don’t care about that, don’t add the numbers.

I know, you hate change…so do I, but in a year we will hardly remember how it used to be, so let’s hang tight and take this one baby step at a time. 

Saving Signatures

I wanted to save my signature so reloading later will be easier too.

Go to  DSO>Gallery>User CP> Edit Signature. The preview screen has a HTML option. Click it. Highlight>Copy> Save in a email and send it to yourself. That is the easiest way I could think. When its time to add it back. Get the email and do the steps in reverse. Highlight>Copy>Signature HTML code> Go to DSO> Gallery> User CP and paste the code in to the preview screen.

Snap your fingers ‘cus your done!!

Weeeee!!!

Smile My Lovelies!

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Edited: January 18th, 2010

Hey New Theme!

Trying a new theme. Testity-test.

Trying a new theme. Testity-test.

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Edited: January 13th, 2010